Can You Really Be a Dog's Best Friend? A Top 10 List

I think that's a valid question, and I don't ask it lightly.them to continue liking you, be sure to consider this
The short answer is yes. The long answer maybe no,when choosing the breed of dog you get.
and let me tell you why. I think I'll start things off2. Dogs eat. If you have trouble paying your own
with a short story. It's interesting and I think it willgrocery bill, think about the extra expense of a big
shed some light on what I am thinking.bag of dog food once a month.
Way back in 1999, I was attending graduate school3. Dogs need to go to the doctor. If you are having
at Binghamton University. I lived on the third floor oftrouble paying for your own health care, think about
an old house in a very small apartment. The housewhat you are going to do the day your dog needs
was in a rather congested part of town, so all of theto have an operation.
residents could get a very clear picture of what was4. Dogs need to relieve themselves. If you like to
happening in the neighborhood around them. From mysnuggle under your warm covers at 5AM in the
apartment, I had a pretty good vantage point of amiddle January, think about the feeling you will have
few backyards that were close by.when your new dog starts barking to go outside at
As you could imagine, while attending graduatethat time.
school, I was required to study for a good portion of5. Dogs need to play. If you work late and no one is
the day and night. There was no way to get aroundhome, who will be there to take the dog outside to
it and much of it had to be done in my apartment. Inburn off all the energy they have?
order to have a good studying session, I needed6. Dogs need love. Are you ready to spend at least
quiet. Thinking back, I should have moved into atwo hours a day with your dog?
more sparse part of town.7. Dogs need space. Do you have the room for a
The day after I moved in, I remember looking outdog that may become hyper when it gets excited?
the window into the backyard across the street.8. Dogs are not welcome in many rental units. Do you
There were two dogs lying down on a dirt area.rent? Be aware that by having a dog, you are limiting
They were tethered together by the same dogyourselves to about 10% of available units for rent.
leash, a piece of one tied to the other. Their heads9. Dogs require patience. Take a good look at
were about a foot apart and they had no where toyourself. Have you ever lost your temper? Many
go. Every time someone passed on the sidewalk,dogs may do things that will upset you.
they would stand up and run to the chain link fence,10. Dogs need to be licensed. What are the rules of
barking. This went on day after day. Eventually,your area when it comes to dog ownership?
someone from the neighborhood called the ASPCAThe above list is not meant to be depressing. It's
and had the dogs removed. The owners weremeant to give you a realistic view of what you can
charged with having the dogs outside without shelterexpect after you bring that cute, cuddly little puppy
and a few other things.into your home. I have owned many dogs and I
This brings me to the point of this piece. Why dowrite from experience.
people bring dogs into their homes, when they clearlyA good friend of mine owns two rather large dogs
don't have the means to properly care for them? I'mthat he adopted from a friend during his senior year
sure we have all seen it a thousand times; theof college. They are both about five years old now.
messiest house on the road with three viscous dogsHe loves the dogs, but feels he may have made a
chained to a stump in the front yard, the collegemistake. He may not have been ready for them. I
students who thought it would be fun to get aremember asking him how he feels about owning the
"house" puppy, the overworked parents who thoughtdogs, to which he replied, "Yeah, that was pretty
it would be a good idea to get their young children anmuch the biggest mistake I ever made."
active puppy to play with.Now, let's discuss the brighter side of things. If you
What's the common theme that runs across all threehave looked over the above list and think you might
examples above? Bad choices. I think the mistakesbe ready to give a dog a new home, good for you.
many people make are 1) they don't understand thatJust be sure to look for that dog in the right places.
owning a dog is a huge responsibility and 2) dogs canThere are many dogs in shelters across this country
lead miserable lives, if not taken care of properly.that are just waiting for someone like you to walk
Here is a (hopefully helpful) list of reminders that youthrough the door. Do the right thing and adopt. You'll
should consider before bringing a dog into your family:be glad you did.
1. Dogs bark. If you like your neighbors and want